Do not lose a good man because you asked him for money at a time when he is temporary unable to dispense cash. Do not take his inability to give at that time to mean that he is poor, or that he has a poverty potential. He just doesn’t have the money, that’s all.
It pains so much for a good man to find himself in a position where he is unable to provide for his woman. It hurts, especially when he knows that his hands are like a running stream, and giving is his absolute nature. He may not be able to take you shopping and buy you those nice things, but If he tells you how many times he has given to you, you will be amazed. The only problem is that the giving are not physical, but mental. He gave in his mind, he has bought you fine shoes in his mind, he has bought you beautiful dresses in different designs and colours, all with his mind currency. He might be broke, but it still does not stop his giving nature from finding expression. Even though he knows you would appreciate if the Prada came in a physical gift box, because no one compliments the gucci shoes you wear mentally.
If he is kind, and nice and gentle and God loving, those are priceless values that money cannot buy. These are the fruits of a good heart, and if he has a good heart, he will be open to give when the money comes in. The Bible says that the hidden man of the heart is incorruptible, this is talking about values. If you have such a man in your life, hang on with him for a little longer, and pray for things to turn around for him. If he has an incorruptible fruit, no elevated status can corrupt him. This is where alot of women say, “after building and standing by him when he has nothing, he leaves you when things gets better.” Yes, this is true, true when you are building and standing by a man who does not have godly values, his heart is just like a jangolover, corruptible with any change of status. You just didn’t notice it, you were too busy mixing the cement that you didn’t notice the muddy foundation;
Building with a man who struggles the front seat of a car with you. Building with a man who doesn’t have but when little money comes in he buys for himself first. Building with a man who borrows from you and never returns it, you don’t even know the outcome of the business he borrowed the money for. Building with a man who goes out drinking when a small alert comes in. Then you are surprise he is leaving when things are better? Naaa, he has left you many times even in that lowly level, you just did not realise it.